Monday, May 19, 2014

Garage Sale!

Hi everyone!


Well, I figured it was time for another update since we had our big garage sale on Saturday! I am wishing that I had taken a picture of all the things we had for sale!! Thanks to the generosity of several of our friends (though there were several things that were from our home as well), we had a bunch of stuff to sell! Our goal had always been to raise between $300-$400 in the garage sale, and our grand total was $449! What a huge blessing! That will definitely go a long way since our adoption will cost around $14,000 with all of the different fees and travel expenses. We cannot begin to express the gratitude that we have towards all the people who donated, came to the sale and those who prayed for us! It was a beautiful, warm, sunny day, and we had a steady stream of customers all day!

We also have scheduled our home study for this Friday! Over the last few months, we have been installing smoke detectors, mounting a fire extinguisher, and making sure that our home will pass all of the safety standards. It has definitely been a fair amount of work! Joe's work has been a little bit unpredictable as far as schedule, so we are really praying that he will get confirmation that he will have the day off either today or tomorrow. It is all in God's hands! I have also been filling out more paperwork (yay! not...) since our social worker has let us start on the next steps of the process so we can progress more quickly. I have most of it completed, though there are a few things that I cannot submit until after the home study is completed. This week will be full of cleaning and making sure that everything is ready for Friday! We are so excited!

All in all, it has been a VERY busy few weeks! We have been very blessed! I'll try to update the blog after our home study on Friday, so keep a look out! :)

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Where are we in the process?

Hi all!

Just wanted to give everyone a quick update! So, last time I explained how the process works (in a very short overview), and here is where we are now.

What have we completed?

First of all, we completed the pre-application process where we filled out several forms, introducing ourselves. Then, we watched several training videos and recorded our responses to questions about those videos. After that, we went into our doctor and got physicals to make sure we are healthy, and after sending all of that information into CSSMT, we were able to pay the workshop fee to attend the CSSMT workshop. We attended that workshop on April 14th. Since then, we have been filling out tons of forms and uploading documents (tax returns, our marriage certificate, birth certificates, etc.). Joe and I also had to be fingerprinted to make sure that we do not have any criminal records with the FBI. On Saturday, we went up to Billings to meet with a psychiatrist to do some psychological testing to make sure that we were healthy emotionally. We just received the results from that testing (everything looked great, which was a relief!), and our next step is paying the thousand dollar homestudy fee.

What expenses have we had so far?

Well, we have had to pay a few fees for applying, our doctors visits, and the workshop. Along with the fees, we are required to install several safety features in our home. These include locking our guns in a secure place, locking our ammunition in a separate area, purchasing and mounting a fire extinguisher in our home, putting in smoke detectors in every bedroom, mounting carbon monoxide detectors/smoke detectors in our hallways upstairs and downstairs, and making sure that we have everything in general picked up, which has been no small task since we are currently working on some remodeling downstairs!

What is next?

Once all of the paperwork is received by CSSMT, they will officially assign our social worker to us. She then will go through all of our paperwork (I do not envy that job!), and then she will schedule an appointment with us to do the home-study inspection. When I asked her, she figured that if all of the paperwork was received in the next two or so weeks, we should have our home-study scheduled for the end of May or beginning of June, depending on what her schedule is like. After we go through the home-study, we then get to do more paperwork (oh, joy!) to fulfill the requirements to be foster parents (which we will technically by until we have had our child living with us for 6 months, after that we will file for the adoption finalization). Once all of that paperwork is submitted, with the assumption that it will all go through easily, we will then be approved and put on the adoption list. Once that is done, we will begin paying the adoption fees, and will be waiting for placement.

There you have it! Things are moving along fairly quickly, and we are hoping to get the approval done by mid-June. In case you haven't seen it on my Facebook, we are having an adoption garage sale in Billings on May 17th! We are hoping to raise around $400 in the garage sale, so if any of you have anything that you would like to donate, please let me know! Thank you all for your generosity, love and support!


Blessings to you and yours,

Joe, Shiloh and Lydia